Ironman is a superhero, Ironwoman is a command.
An Optimist learns German. A Pessimist learns Chinese. A Realist learns AK-47.
Snowballs.
and Ironwoman a command?
Ultra Downy
You command vast powers beyond the scope of smaller minds, but to them all you do is wiggle your fingers and stuff just happens.
Both have a little Downy Jr in them.
One is a superhero and the other is a simple command.